The I think everyones after me people RANT.

You get a twofer today folks.

Ok it gets on my flippin nerves to have those people that defriend or stop being friends with you over what you say. ESPECIALLY...if they say those things to you, if you can't handle being dish back what you say then don't say it. I have lost friends over speaking my mind and if anyone else has to guess what, they were never truly your friend to begin with.

One post that get son my nerves when people get defensive over is....relationship status post. ONE no one gives a mogul about how you got a new GF/BF, cause chances are you two will never be together long enough for anyone to know them. Now engagement is another matter, though same rule applies that I am about to say. You can't get pissed off when you have the one friend who doesn't congrates you,everyone has the friend that doesn't believe in love, the smart one....love is something I believe to be stupid and over rated. I too was once wrapped up in the must find true love, I realize thats a loud of crap. However if you have found true love and is or about to be married good for you.

 If you get a post from said friend when its a GF/BF saying "its a mistake" do not take this as a fluck ducking personal attack, they probably are not attacking you personally or your flavor of the week. They just speaking their mind and if you don't like it....ignore them....its that easy. ESPECIALLY when its a facebook post. What makes me laugh is when they blow up like a 6 yr old on Halo, then make a post later apologizing about a fight that never happen cause they were the only ones yelling or mad typing and the other didn't respond because they found it trivial to even fathom such actions. Then go and defriend someone you haven't even spoken to ina  while and kicked to the curb.....shoving friends to curb can also tribute to getting shitty post from them, why...cause you just kicked your friend to the ground with no reason.

then you want to flip shit when their not happy for you. WHY would they...you just dump their ass, they no longer care about feelings. Then the apology when they get stuck with you cause you two still share a friend, they suspect one back for you speaking your mind so they say it felt like a personal attack, it was wrong...so you know what you do...you tell them fluck duck you...you kicked my butt to the curb and haven't answer me back when I message you or call, show them that they had it coming.... also explain your not attacking them if you believe love is a mistake that their no one special you say that to anyone....and that maybe they shouldn't post their relationship status on facebook.

Or how about the ones who think the world owes them...those ones who don't do anything and complain when they didn't get their way. They scream about how the world owes them and who their the victim of everything.Please allow me to shatter this illusion you have, the world owes you NOTHING.....and your the victim of your own demise. Sure I could blame everyone for whats happen to me, thats easy..but in reality its my own stupid fault for where or what happens to me in life I make the choices. So when they world falls apart you have no one to blame but yourself.

Those people who play victim who think everyones out to get them, they annoy me. Cause most of the ones i have met are the ones who scream this when they didn't get their way in life. Well lifes not fair, nor does it give a mogul butt about you. Life will screw you in every way it can, it will eat you, spit you out and then rape you some more till you break or grow up to realize life could careless about you.I had a person once tell me that my writing wasn't gonna make it, and that I needed to grow up and start thinking of backup plans, all cause i wouldn't tell her my backup plans. I turn to her and told her to back off, she got all snobby and snooty saying she didn't have an attitude why am I, so I retorted with I'm tired of your crap. This lead to me getting yelled at by another friend saying I am wrong, I stop them and gave my mind, guess what I will speak my mind, secondly I will defend myself as it is no ones business what my backup plans in life are.

She played victim cause i stood up to her, she started telling people I was horrible and stuff for saying back off, oh how horrible I could have said fifty different things to ruin her and break her but I just said back off. I don't care if I lost alot of friends over it..didn't care I lost hers or that she got a friend of mine to yell at me, cause yeah I said what I said I own up to it, I do not look for hand outs...I'm not the victim cause I stood up and decided forget it...yeah lifes been hell for me its not nice, I probably have one of the crappiest life out there but its mine and I make do, I never been one to get my way but I don't care...I will live how I can like I always have and people should too.

Don't try and blame someone for your mistakes or misfortune, its your fault you made that choice. I have made horrible ones and  I live with them, like this rant its a mistake...as I am sure I will upset alot but I don't care. Its my mind I speak it. I doubt anyone will read it, maybe one or to close friends....but I put it out there.Does it make sense probably not, my mind is nothing more then a jumble mess.

The I understand what your going through people RANT.

Hate when people come to you and say "I understand." the hell you do, your not me, you do not feel what I feel. You have no idea what I am going through, you know the people who say that but don't really know you outside of facebook or whatever social network your apart of. They make these post about rules to follow to make life easier or how when they started seeing positive things went so swell for them.

Good for flucking ducking you, I been following those same rules for my whole life and it only brought me ruin, but glad it work for you.Then they say those words that just make me grit my teeth, the "I understand.I felt the same or went through the same." REALLY.....you feel exactly like I do now, you have gone through the exact same thing as I have. I highly doubt it.

I hate it when you go and here about how someone goes and reads your post and then puts oh I been there. YOU HAVE....really....please oh great person who already been through the same exact thing tell me how I could have avoided this to keep the pain and avoid the troubles it brings. Why couldn't you have told me ahead of time when you saw me making that mistake what would happen? wait what you didn't go through the same as me....then why the fuck you saying you understand...that you know how i feel...or that you went through the same when you didn't.

Seriously its just sympathetic stuff you tell people to make them feel better, guess what it doesn't work. It actually can piss people off, cause they know you don't even begin to understand at all. If your not ready to deal with someone jumping your throat when the words "I understand." leaves your lips, or you hit enter and post it, don't say it. You will run into people like me who will stare at you or said post and go Fluck duck you....you know nothing. Its the truth, cause your not me you have no idea what I went through.....to say you understand and you don't is like a slap in the face.

Thats why I tell people, I have no idea how you feel but just know I am here for you. I am here for yo to help me better understand how I can help you, cause I don't know how you feel or what is going on in your mind, but do know I will be here as support. That I went through a similar experience, so I have some SOME understanding to the feelings you feel, I may not understand all or know all, but I know how I felt during that time or event.....

Next time just tell them I went through something similar and remember how I felt...because there is no way you could understand or felt the same way that person did. Your not them, your not in their mind.

Thats all I have to rant about on this subject, don't like it? tough moguls, I am gonna say whats on my mind. I have that write has a human being to do so, along with freedom of speech, just like you have the write to say what you want even if it is those horrid "I understand what your going through.." words.....can't stop you from saying them, but can tell you how it makes me feel.

I'll be ranting alot on these blogs about things.