The I understand what your going through people RANT.

Hate when people come to you and say "I understand." the hell you do, your not me, you do not feel what I feel. You have no idea what I am going through, you know the people who say that but don't really know you outside of facebook or whatever social network your apart of. They make these post about rules to follow to make life easier or how when they started seeing positive things went so swell for them.

Good for flucking ducking you, I been following those same rules for my whole life and it only brought me ruin, but glad it work for you.Then they say those words that just make me grit my teeth, the "I understand.I felt the same or went through the same." REALLY.....you feel exactly like I do now, you have gone through the exact same thing as I have. I highly doubt it.

I hate it when you go and here about how someone goes and reads your post and then puts oh I been there. YOU HAVE....really....please oh great person who already been through the same exact thing tell me how I could have avoided this to keep the pain and avoid the troubles it brings. Why couldn't you have told me ahead of time when you saw me making that mistake what would happen? wait what you didn't go through the same as me....then why the fuck you saying you understand...that you know how i feel...or that you went through the same when you didn't.

Seriously its just sympathetic stuff you tell people to make them feel better, guess what it doesn't work. It actually can piss people off, cause they know you don't even begin to understand at all. If your not ready to deal with someone jumping your throat when the words "I understand." leaves your lips, or you hit enter and post it, don't say it. You will run into people like me who will stare at you or said post and go Fluck duck you....you know nothing. Its the truth, cause your not me you have no idea what I went through.....to say you understand and you don't is like a slap in the face.

Thats why I tell people, I have no idea how you feel but just know I am here for you. I am here for yo to help me better understand how I can help you, cause I don't know how you feel or what is going on in your mind, but do know I will be here as support. That I went through a similar experience, so I have some SOME understanding to the feelings you feel, I may not understand all or know all, but I know how I felt during that time or event.....

Next time just tell them I went through something similar and remember how I felt...because there is no way you could understand or felt the same way that person did. Your not them, your not in their mind.

Thats all I have to rant about on this subject, don't like it? tough moguls, I am gonna say whats on my mind. I have that write has a human being to do so, along with freedom of speech, just like you have the write to say what you want even if it is those horrid "I understand what your going through.." words.....can't stop you from saying them, but can tell you how it makes me feel.

I'll be ranting alot on these blogs about things.