Ok a subject touchy to some and to others very relate-able, if this post offends you, then your part of the problem. Children who act out in public, I can not stand walking around a store or going out to eat at a nice restaurant, only to have to endure someone elses bratty kid. In grocery stores they're running around like wild animals, running out in front of your buggy, pushing out of the way, or screaming at their parents for not getting their way. I once told a mother nice can you please keep your kids near you and out of the way. She flat out ignored me, just looked at me like I was a moron, so I told her either get control of your kids or next time they run out in front of my buggy I am running them over with it and laughing. Now I wouldn't really harm a kid, but she got the clue and gathered up her children.
I mean sheeesh my mother made me and my brother keep hand on buggy, we were not allowed to leave or run wild. We were to say excuse me if we had to cross in front of anyone, now a days kids have no manners. Kids think they can do whatever they want and thats not the case. You think parents keep a tight hold on their kids with the scare of trafficing and kidnappers or even worse child molesters out and about. Hate seeing them run wild and think, where the parents are and what happens if their snatched up. Also if your kid is screaming about you not buying them what they want, heres a cure....SPANK THEIR BUTTS! You don't have to beat your child, just three pops on the butt and trust me they will get the picture. Sure they'll scream they hate you, you don't love them, you're cruel, but in the end they WILL respect you, cause kids need boundaries and discipline shows you care. You explain why they are being popped and then tell them don't do it again or else.
Kids screaming in restaurants, look when people go to a nice restaurant, they don't want to experience your wild kid. To the people getting mad that restaurants are starting to add policies of kicking you and your wild child out, maybe you should take a look at how your child behaves and remember how embarrassing it was for you to be told to leave, cause you couldn't control your kid. Teach them how to act in public, if they embarrassed you, PUNISH THEM. You and everyone else should be able to enjoy a nice restaurant in PEACE, meaning your kid should not be throwing fits, leaving their seat or bothering other people. Also STOP BLAMING THE RESTAURANT for their now found policies, its not their fault, its everyone who refuses to control their kids fault. Ya kids will be kids, BUT they WILL LEARN RESPECT, your job is to teach them how to act.
Oh and I am TIRED of parents complaining about stuff not family friendly, there should be NONE family friendly places for people who do not want to be around children. Also goes for haunted houses, if you complain its to scary, then DON'T GO! Also don't drag your kid to one, if you know they don't do well with scary, thats not fair to the kid and just cruel. Haunted houses are SUPPOSE TO BE SCARY, their job is to scare you. Stop complaining about it, especially for your mistake in bringing your child to it and them getting nightmares and scared, thats your fault not theirs.
Also stop telling strangers in public how to act just cause your kids with you. ITS PUBLIC PLACE, you can't control other people, if you are worried your kid will pick up with they are doing or saying, you tell them those are things you don't do or say or you will be punished. My mother never shield me from the real world, she just told me if I ever did or said things I saw, I'd regret it. Guess what I listen to her, cause I knew she punish me if I didn't. I know not all parents believe in spanking, even though its very effective in my opinion and ok, but stay on top of the punishment you decide to do. If its not working change it, your kids reflect your parenting skills. Control them in public and DON'T ridicule a parent who does discipline their kid in public, thats not your kid. I don't care if you think its wrong, I think its wrong people let their kids be little demons that scream and shout, if I see a parent discipline their kid, I want to go and thank them for being a great parent to their kid, teaching them life isn't always fair and that there is a way to act in public.
Again if you got offend, you're probably one of the people who lets their kid act however or claim kids will be kids can't control toddlers. Guess what you can, with boundaries and discipline and the demand of respect.
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